Here’s a suggestion . . .
Identify someone you really like or admire. It could be a friend, a relative or celebrity you’ve never met.
Look at what you view as strength in that person.
When you like or admire someone, it’s often a projection of yourself!
Therefore, chances are that same strength is something you display or something you’re hiding and that you want to display.
For Example . . .
Many women admire Madonna, not necessarily because of her singing or acting career, but because she overcame the shackles of growing up in a strict household and the courage to be herself no matter what others thought.
So find the commonality you share with someone, as that will help you find the traits you like about yourself!